I truly believe everyone should experience being single.
- No pointless dramas, which others can involve you in.
- You can plan and organise your life with no interference from others.
- If you don’t want to talk to another you don’t have too.
- You can practice treating yourself kindly which helps you feel good about yourself.
- You have freedom, flexibility and can be as spontaneous as you wish.
- You can learn what makes you laugh out loud.
- You have no one demanding anything from you but you are always there for you.
- You don’t have argumentative in-laws, resentful stepchildren, or any bitter exes of your current partner stalking you.
- You can watch what you like on the T.V.
- You realise you are knowledgeable, wise and can survive on your own.
- You can take time out for yourself when you need to rest as no one else to consider.
- No wet towels on the floor or unmade beds.
- No having to think of excuses to avoid sex which may have got stagnant and boring.
- Enjoy the passion, intimacy and adventure which comes with new relationships.
- Learn how to meet your own needs sexually.
- You don’t have to put up with bad moods, sulks, or stroppy behaviour from others.
- You can spend time doing what you want to do.
The list goes on! Being single has many benefits and in fact can become quite addictive, when you realise the peace and harmony it brings!
I have learned taking the time to know yourself means you are the best version of yourself allowing you to meet the best version of another!
Being single is nothing to be scared of, sure you can have times of feeling lonely, however these times pass and you learn you can handle them.
If you are struggling being single, give me a shout.